Monday, 28 September 2020

Low Self- Esteem 4



 *Moment of Liberation*

*Low Self- Estee

Today we will complete our series on overcoming low self- Esteem.


The Mirror is a very great tool in boosting your self esteem. Whenever you are facing this challenge, look at the mirror, speak positive things about your self. Tell yourself about the past challenges you overcame. Tell yourself that you can always.


Second, Never dwell among people who drown your confidence or further make you loose your self esteem. Surround yourself with people who believe in you. If faith comes by hearing, your self esteem can also improve through feeding your soul on things that helps your self esteem.


Be a continuous learner. Learning is till death, never stop learning, try to know something about everything. This may sound awkward with self esteem, but it works. If knowledge is power, then you get more powerful as you increase in knowledge and this can help your self esteem.


Lastly, take criticism as a way to improve. Be prepared to meet both constructive and destructive criticism, but whenever you get criticized, be desperate to improve and proof your critics wrong.


I see you as the best version of your self.


I believe in you.


*I Teach Purpose*

*Living Legend*

Sunday, 20 September 2020

Low Self Esteem - part 3



 *Moment of Liberation*

*Low Self Esteem -3*


It has been a wonderful series since the beginning of the month. Today we will be discussing steps in overcoming low self esteem.


The First step, is Loving yourself for who you are. A lot of people hate themselves, they feel they are not created well, but then, you must learn to love yourself.


You are a special breed, you are the last of your kind.


No one on earth has the same thumb print with you. Can you see you were not born by mistake. You are a product of divine thought.


*So love yourself*


The second step is, Believe in yourself. You must build this confidence in yourself. Encourage yourself, cheer up yourself.


If possible do it while facing the mirror, speak positive things to your spirit and soul. Be your own motivation.


*Never let your motivating factor for anything be external. Let it come for within.*


Third step, have the mind set that failure is a result of an attempt. Do not let a failed attempt pull you down, it is only a result of a trial, you are better off than does who never tried. Take it as a result to improve on and not a rejection to cry about.


Work on this three steps this week and thank me for it.


Remember, Low-Self Esteem can affect fulfilment and accomplishment in life.


Until I come your way next week.


*I Teach Purpose*

*Living Legend*

Sunday, 13 September 2020

Low- Self Esteem Part 2



 *Low self Esteem -2*


Nothing pulls a man down more than self defeat. 

You are not a loser until you consent to being a loser.


Low self esteem can make you leave your rightful place even for someone lesser.


Low self esteem could make you give up on your goals even before starting.


It is a part to self limitation and stagnation.


The first step to defeating low self esteem is first to acknowledge the fact that you are suffering from low self esteem.


Your not acknowledging could be the worst danger, because you will keep giving excuses and justification for why you are not utilizing your potentials. Sometimes you will have to find someone to blame.


Accepting you are suffering from low self esteem is not self defeat, it is self triumph.


The day you see the problem, that day it seize to be a problem.

Join me next week as we drive you through step by step guide of getting out of low self esteem from a life testimony.

Low self esteem kills purpose.

*I Teach Purpose*

*Living Legend*

Sunday, 6 September 2020

Low Self Esteem



Moment of Liberation

 Many people today are locked up in their shell, they have no mindset of trying something new but rather want to remain the way they are. Some have the feeling of incapability and can't stand with their peers while others are fearful of not doing well. All these are features of Low-Self Esteem

Low self-esteem is a situation and a feeling whereby a person feels he or she is not good enough. It is a feeling and mindset that makes one think he cannot do certain things right.

People with low self-esteem also suffer inferiority complex. That is, they have the feeling of having low quality and relevance compared to their peers.

Low self-esteem makes a person think and feel he or she has little or no value and as a result, decides to distance themselves from people and things around them.

Low self esteem can be overcome by believing in yourself, staying away from all forms of negativities, avoiding comparison, being with the right people and also developing new interests and learning new things


Unique Grace

Sunday, 30 August 2020

Your Mentality - Part 4



 *Moment of Liberation*

*Your mentality* part 4


In the last edition, we discussed the Danger of Mentality, today we will be discussing mentality as a Spirit.


Your mentality defies your educational qualification.


It is the spirit behind your thought and action.


Your mentality is that strange force that drives your life.


You cannot see it, but you can express it.


It is the force behind your  'I Can' and the spirit behind your 'I can't'


It can not be killed or destroyed, it can only be changed.


No man exist devoid of having a mentality in every facet of life at every time, but you can substitute it for either a better or lesser one.


*The only power you have over your mentality is to substitute it for a better or lesser one*


You do not possess the power to hinder it from driving you.


*Your mentality is what drives you, and what drives you determine where you get to*


*The first step to changing your direction in life is changing your mentality*


*Evaluate your mentality in every facet of life today, within it is where the problem lies*


*I Teach Purpose*

*Living Legend*

Sunday, 16 August 2020

Your mentality - Part 3

 *Moment of Liberation*

*Your Mentality - Part 3*



Your mentality can either make you or mar you.

The danger of mentality is that, it can make you lose the best opportunities.

*Mentality determines what you accept or reject.*

Sometimes you might fall victim of rejecting what is good for you.

You cannot rise above your mental capacity.

*Your break even point is determined by your mental strength.*

Your mentality can make you reject knowledge.

*Your mentality can make true knowledge to be applied wrongly.*

One of the danger of people's mentality is that it is difficult to change.

People can confidently boast on what is wrong based on their mentality.

_*Control a man's mental strength and you have controlled the totality of the man*_

*As business people, you don't think about the knowledge base of your client but mental ability.*

It has been proven over time that people buy with their heart most times and not with their brain

*Your mentality occupies the seat of your heart and control your believe system.*

*I Teach Purpose*

*Living Legend*

Sunday, 9 August 2020

Your mentality - part 2


*Moment of Liberation*
*Topic: Your Mentality part 2*

You are not what happened to you, you are what you choose to become

Life is based about choices you make and your choices are the expression of your mental strength and ability.

Let me shock you today. Mentality defiles standards. It also rises above mediocrity.

Knowledge nor education does not translate into mentality, it is its acceptance and belief in it that does.

You cannot attract more than what your mentality can attract and you cannot respond to situations beyond your mentality.

Sometimes in life people dissapoint you based on their actions and they confidently boast of it. What get to hurt you most is not what they did, but you don't expect it from such calibre of person.

Let me tell you, mentality defies calibre

Sometimes you over celebrate some persons not because of what they did, but because you never expect someone of such to perform that action

Mentality is the middle point between life and destruction

If you want to change anything in life, friends, status, environment, or even attain new height, it begins with your mentality.

You cannot reject what your mentality approves.

Until your mentality changes, change has not begin.

One danger of mentality is that, it has a great capacity for self justification.

Watch out for the Dangers of Mentality and Mentality is a Spirit is subsequent editions.

I Teach Purpose
Living Legend